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The Art Of Oral Sex –
Cunnilingus: A Guide For Going
Down On Her
By Stephanie Shammons
General Introduction
People have been using their mouths to stimulate each other sexually for about as long
as there have been people. How about kissing each other? Men have been kissing
women on their necks, ears, breasts, backs, thighs, and anywhere else they can think of
that’ll arouse them sexually ever since they found out it works. It didn’t take long for
some enterprising man to find out that kissing a woman’s vulva worked, did it ever. The
Latin word cunnilingus was coined to describe licking the vulva.
Men were not alone in searching for ways to arouse the opposite sex. Some equally
enterprising woman found out that men liked for her to suck their penis, it worked just
as well. The Latin word fellatio was coined to describe sucking the penis.
Let’s define and use the more common words to describe men and women’s genitalia
and the various sexual acts. Pinus, cock; vulva, pussy; vagina, cunt; Coitus, fuck;
cunnilingus, eating pussy; fellatio, sucking cock, blowjob; performing cunnilingus or
fellatio, giving head; ejaculate, cum or shoot his load; orgasm, cum or climax; pubic hair,
women muff or bush, men bush.
Many men and women, today probably most, use some form of oral massage or kissing
of the sex organs as a normal part of foreplay to warm up their partners prior to fucking.
They probably don’t think of that as “giving head,” and I would agree that it’s not. It’s
simply a part of the foreplay used to prepare each other for fucking and hopefully
achieving a sexual climax.
Giving head, on the other hand, is used by one to bring the other to climax by use of,
primarily, the mouth and tongue. For those couples who develop the required skills and
self-restraint, both can cum together using the 69 position. For me, although the
sensations of a man’s cock thrusting in my cunt are great and I do love a good fuck,
cuming together during 69 is more emotionally satisfying than cuming together by
fucking.
You have to develop an understanding of the intimate feelings and emotions that occur
while you’re performing oral sex and during a climax, and how to respond to those
feelings. Giving head is much more intimate than fucking and, if approached with the
right attitude, can be more emotionally satisfying. Both the man and woman need to
become familiar with what the other’s emotional needs are, not just what it takes to
make each other cum.
Only in the movies does a man grab a woman and say, take your clothes off, I want to
fuck, or vise-versa. You have to pick a time and place other than the kitchen where the
baby has just thrown a bowl of food all over your wife, although it might be a welcome
distraction right abought then. Giving head requires at least as much emotional
preparation as fucking. For the subject to even come up, one partner has to have built
up the desire. That partner then has to build up the desire in the other partner.
Getting the other to let you bring them to orgasm is generally the easiest. If you just
want to eat her pussy or she just wants to suck your cock, then all that’s required is a
willingness to submit, and this is important, with the expectation of achieving orgasm.
Getting the other to bring you to orgasm requires the art of gentle persuasion. If you
just want her to suck your cock or she just wants’ you to eat her pussy, a slightly
different situation exists. A woman can probably convince a man to eat her pussy
without much effort. All that’s generally required is for him to be in a reasonably good
mood. If he just wants her to suck his cock, and she wasn’t already thinking about sex,
then he’s going to have to get her in the proper mood first.
You’ll find out that no matter who starts, the other will probably end up getting head
also, either that or you’ll end up fucking. Given this the man. When a man is
passionately eating out a woman’s pussy, he’s got a hard-on that won’t quit. He wants
to bury his face in her muff and thrust his tongue into her cunt, join with her body. It’s
not unusual for a man to get so worked up emotionally while he’s eating a woman’s
pussy that he cums while he’s doing it, and none of his sex organs are involved except
his mind.
Sex should not be all oral. When the opportunity presents itself, like when you’re
passionately eating her out, she’s starting on her second orgasm and is really hot,
you’ve got a hard-on that just won’t quit and she’s lying at the edge of the bed with you
between her legs. You look down and see that if you just got up on your knees your
cock would find itself in her cunt, go ahead and shove it in there and give each other a
good fuck. Some women say that they feel lonesome when they’re receiving head, they
want to be held and kissed. This is why moving from eating her pussy smoothly into
fucking her can be very satisfying, it’s also a good reason for 69.
This book is in two parts, the first, how to eat pussy, the second, how to suck cock. A
final section gives an example of how to blend the best of both sexual worlds, oral and
coitus. I hope you learn your lessons well and have many years of pleasure putting what
you learn into practice.
The Art of Cunnilingus or How to Eat
Pussy
This section is for men who want learn how to properly eat a woman’s pussy, or who’ve
heard that it might not be all that bad to put their face down there, and for women who
want to get their man to eat them period, improvement in performance can come later.
I am not an expert. I am simply a woman who knows what she likes, and has had all too
many experiences with men who didn’t seem to have the vaguest idea what they were
doing between her legs.
Eating a woman’s pussy is about the most wonderful thing you can do for her. It makes
her feel loved, admired, sexy, and of course it makes her cum like crazy. Many women
prefer it to intercourse, and for most, it’s the easiest way to cum with a man. You may
have the littlest cock on the planet, but if you give great head, you’ll be appreciated as a
fabulous lover. Yes, it’s that important. Besides, lots of women expect it these days so
you might as well get to know what you’re doing. Studies show that 90 percent of
married couples under 25 give head and for couples over 50, at least 55 percent of the
men are eating pussy, with 95 percent of the men and 82 percent of the women
enjoying it.
Many guys seem to have a strange love/hate relationship with women’s genitalia. Guys
that can’t wait to get their cock into one are often reluctant to put their face “down
there.” For every guy who says he loves to eat pussy, there’s another one who’s
squeamish. Women know this, and it affects their ability to lie back and enjoy the
experience.
This is for you gals. Before you can get him to eat pussy for the first time, you need to
get him worked up about the idea, that is, get him to think about sex for a few minutes,
but don’t do anything to make him cum yet. He’s got a sex switch in his brain that turns
on when he sees a woman, especially a naked one, and turns off as soon as he cums,
this is why who does what first can be very important in the beginning, less so as the
two of you mature. Fortunately, it won’t take much to get him to eat you the first time,
just undress and ask him to, let him look at your pussy for a while, show him your clit
and let him play with it, promise him a good fuck afterwards or a blowjob if you’ve read
the second section, if he seems the least bit interested straddle his head and rub your
bush over his face.
What’s Down There?
This is for you guys. Most men don’t really know what they’ve been sticking their cock
into. Many women also don’t appreciate what they have, and can’t understand why a
man would think that it was beautiful, let alone want to put his face in it.
Why would a man like to eat pussy? Most men I know who really love women and want
make having sex with them a joint endeavor rather than a conquest, also like to eat
pussy. They don’t want to just eat her, they want to bring her to a great climax and then
build her up for a fuck that neither will forget, or maybe get a good blowjob if that’s
what she wants to do. I think that there are two basic reasons.
First, many men want to give their woman the most sexual satisfaction they can, they
enjoy pleasing her and will go to great lengths to do so, the more their woman likes
what they are doing to her, the harder their cocks get until sometimes they cum just
from eating her.
The second is the role that the mouth, tongue, taste and smell play in sex. Why do
people kiss? They receive pleasure from the interaction that takes place during a kiss.
The mouth, lips and tongue are some of the more erogenous zones of the body and are
active rather than passive, you do something with them. You nibble on her ears, kiss and
suck on her nipples, kiss her navel, why not kiss and suck on the most sexual part of her
body, her pussy. The tastes and odors of the fresh secretions from a clean healthy
woman’s pussy are also erotic to many men. Put this all together and your mouth in her
pussy is where it’s at guys.
Now that you’ve got your woman out of the shower, on the bed, and fairly well warmed
up (or she’s got you there), stop and look at what you see. Leave the lights on, or get a
flashlight or something, so that you can examine her carefully. Take a good look at
what’s between her legs. Beautiful, isn’t it? There’s nothing that makes a woman more
unique than her pussy. I know. I’ve seen plenty of them. They come in all different sizes,
colors and shapes; some are tucked inside like a little girl’s cunnie and some have thick
luscious lips that come out to greet you. Some are nested in brushes of fur and others
are covered with transparent fuzz.
The first thing you see is her muff. It should be the same color as the rest of her hair but
who knows these days. It has a slightly different texture than the hair on her head and
can cover a large or small area but usually just up over the mons area, that fleshy
mound over her pelvic bone, and down each side of her pussy to its lower end. It usually
does not spread out to her thighs and has sparse growth partially onto the outer lips.
Don’t worry, looking at it won’t make you go blind. Nestled in the midst of her muff are
the outer, or major, lips of her pussy (they are vertical on all women). They are not overly
sensitive to touch on the outside (but it’s a good place to start), about the same as the
shaft of your cock. They extend from the upper part of the hood that covers her clit to
more or less the bottom of her pussy. They’re thick and luscious in the middle and thin
out at each end blending into her body. Some are almost closed while others are open
to varying extents, allowing the inner pleasures to peep through. They don’t generally
come together completely at the top, exposing the upper cone of the clitoral hood, and
less so at the bottom, giving you a glimpse of the bottom of the vaginal entrance where
the lower parts of the inner lips surround it.
Underneath the outer lips are the inner, or minor, lips. These are much thinner, more
sensitive and fun to play with. At the top they form the cone-shaped hood that protects
the sensitive clit, closing in under the clit and then coming back out to continue down to
the bottom of the vaginal entrance. They tend to blossom out between the outer lips,
especially near the bottom.
Between the underside of the clit and the bottom of the vaginal opening lies the
vestibule, your new playground. Although the clit’s hood is a part of the inner lips, they
appear to only cover the vestibule. The urethra and vagina open into the vestibule.
Excluding the obvious first place role of the clit, it’s the vestibule and the entrance to the
vagina where a lot of the action takes place.
I’ve saved the best for last, the clitoris or clit, accent on the first syllable. Most of you
know it, but for those who don’t, it’s THE woman’s sex organ, period. It may feel great to
be fucked vaginally or otherwise, but if the stimulation isn’t right there, on the clit,
you’re ignoring the place that’s going to make her cum, and presumably that’s why
you’re reading this, right? It’s right there at the top juncture of her inner lips, a small
knob of pink flesh. This is where it’s at boys, and don’t forget it. Almost any licking and
sucking of the labia or vaginal entrance are going to feel just dandy; just remember
that’s pleasurable, teasing, not the main event. I can’t tell you how many guys have
thrust their tongues up my cunt thinking that that was going to make me cum. They
were wrong. Of course, with a little manual stimulation . . . but I’m getting ahead of
myself.
Women feel differently about how much direct stimulation they can take on their clit.
Some women will adore it if you suck hard on their exposed clits, others will shriek in
pain. You may encounter a woman who is completely unable to take direct stimulation
of her clit; the goal is still the same, but you’ll have to stimulate it indirectly, such as
through her labia. IMPORTANT NOTE: Often, what is unacceptably rough at first, may be
fine after she’s very excited. The fact is, most women really need a good bit of
stimulation before a targeted attack on their clit, but once they’re ready, that’s where
you want to devote your attention.
Back off for now, rest your head on her thigh and just admire the view. Learn to
appreciate your woman’s unique qualities and tell her what makes her special. Describe
what you see, in poets’ words if you can, but in any way you can as long as it’s with love
and admiration.
Positions
You can give head to your woman in just about any position she can get herself into,
floating on her back in a swimming pool with her legs around your neck, standing on a
picnic table, however, some positions are obviously better than others. Giving good
head to your woman on a lazy summer afternoon can take an hour or more if you play it
right. That means that you both have to be in comfortable positions to enjoy it, or even
endure it. That usually means a lying, sitting or reclining position. She has to be able to
spread her legs comfortably and hold them in that position. She should not have to
have the weight of your body on her, or hers on you. She also needs to be able to put
her hands on your head and pull it against her. You need to be able to make eye contact
with her while you are eating her. You have to be able to press your mouth to and your
tongue in all of her pussy, including holding it deep in her cunt without getting a crick in
your neck. You also have to be able to easily place your hands on her pussy and your
fingers in her cunt.
The obvious place to start is a bed. She can recline comfortably against some pillows
and watch you work. You can lie on your stomach between her legs, however, you’ll
have to tilt your head too far back to get your tongue in her cunt comfortably. Putting a
couple of pillows under her hips to tilt her pelvis up will help with that problem. This is
probably one of the better positions. Another good one, maybe the best, is for her to
slide her hips to the edge of the bed and rest her feet on two overstuffed chairs that are
spread apart enough for you to rest between them. They can be turned so that she can
rest her knees against the arms or backs. A couple of pillows under her head and she
can reach your head and watch to her harts content. You can rest on a soft cushion on
the floor, your head resting on her thigh, sucking on her clit for hours and have easy
access to all of your afternoon’s pleasures.
And then there’s 69. . . . 69 is one of my favorite positions. On the plus side, you both
get to enjoy the sublime sensations of getting head simultaneously. The upside down
positioning of a woman’s pussy and your mouth is an easy fit and there’s more room for
your hands. On the negative side, it’s a less than ideal position for a woman to suck cock
and you may not feel comfortable with your nose in her anus when you French kiss her
cunt. I also love for a man to reach down, thrust his tongue deep in my cunt and then
slowly lap it back up to my clit which doesn’t work well upside down. Plus, if you need to
read this book, you may be better off concentrating your energies on pleasing her
without too much distraction at first. But even for experienced 69?ers, it’s easy to short
change your partner. “It feels soooo good, I’m just gonna stop for a second and
concentrate on what you’re . . . aaaarrrgghhh.” Get the picture? Some show of willpower
is in order.
She can also straddle your face which can be a lot of fun, but be prepared to get very
wet. There are endless varieties of positions where you can press your face up to her
pussy, some of which strike me as more acrobatic than erotic, but feel free to
experiment.
Getting Started
For you gals who need instruction . . . just lie back and enjoy it, it’ll grow on you. When
he does something you like, tell him. Hold his head gently with your hands and guide
him, talk to him, he’ll love it.
Now for the men. So there you are, staring at it – the mysterious hole from whence you
came, and into which you hope to cum again . . .
The key here is to go slow, ask questions, really explore her body. Body language often
tells what feels best, but I promise, she’ll appreciate your attentiveness if you ask
outright. If she seems shy, get her to guide your hands and mouth with her own hands,
and pay attention. Most women are shy about their bodies. Even if you’ve got the
world’s most gorgeous woman in bed with you, she’s going to worry about how you like
her body. Tell her it’s beautiful, tell her which parts you like best, tell her anything, but
get her to trust you enough to let you down between her legs. Women are a good deal
more verbal than men, especially during lovemaking. They respond more to verbal love,
which means, the more you talk to her, the easier it will be to get her off. So all the time
you’re petting and stroking her beautiful pussy, talk to her about it. There’s nothing
more exciting to a woman than to know that her partner finds her delicious. Don’t be
coy; tell her.
Many men, and women, feel that the tastes and odours associated with a woman’s
pussy are offensive. This isn’t so, the natural fragrance and secretions of a healthy
woman are beautiful and erotic, especially to a man. You both need to settle this
question at the very beginning. Take turns tasting and smelling her pussy’s natural fluids
when she’s fresh and clean. When you finger her and then smell, lick, suck the juice off
your finger and sigh as if in heaven, she’ll forget this problem and you can dive right in.
What if your sweet lady doesn’t smell or taste very sweet? Don’t suffer. (Don’t complain,
either.) Take a nice hot shower or bath together. Lather up both of your bodies and slide
them together. It’s like a whole body fuck. Soap up her pussy, washing between her
outer and inner lips. Spread her lips apart and gently wash her clit. Hey, don’t stop – this
feels great! Run your soapy hand down the crack of her ass, and rub a finger all around
her anus, washing the entrance/exit well. But don’t put those soapy fingers up her cunt.
Instead, rinse them off well and stick one or two inside, making a circular motion. Think
about washing the inside of a tall glass – same thing. She may prefer to use a douche, if
she does, help her do it, you can get your fingers in her cunt later. Now wasn’t that fun?
Now you can feel free to let your tongue wander anywhere it pleases . .
Even though your woman wants you to eat her, she may still be somewhat hesitant
about your going down on her. Don’t just dive right in, warm her up with some serious
kissing and cuddling. Move over on top of her and put your legs between hers. Use your
elbows to keep some of your weight off her. Slowly work your way down her body,
caressing, licking and kissing her ears, eyes, throat, breasts, navel, and wherever she
likes. Press your body down on her muff and slide it around as you move down, getting
her used to something being on it besides your hand and cock.
Lap your tongue on down from her navel to the inside of her thigh. Raise her legs over
your shoulders and rest your cheek on her muff while you continue to lick and kiss her
thigh. Lick the crease between her thigh and pussy. Brush your lips over her muff as you
turn your head over to work on her other thigh. Look up at her, make eye contact and
smile while you rub your cheek over her pussy. When you see her facial expression
begin to change to one of anticipation and feel her tilt her pussy up toward you, you
know she’s forgotten all about her hesitancy and you can start getting into the good
stuff.
So now what? You’ve found a comfy spot to play, you’ve been kissing passionately, your
tongues darting around in each other’s mouths like playful otters. You’ve moved on
down to some of the other interesting parts of her body and she’s starting to groan,
ready for you to eat her now, grinding her pelvis against you. STOP. I know it was just
starting to get good. But was she really groaning and humping you, or was it your own
excitement you were detecting?
I strongly prefer to be excited before a guy starts plunging his tongue into my inner
recesses. Use your judgment, women, even more so than men, love to be teased. The
inner part of her thigh is one of her more tender spots. Lick it, kiss it, make designs on it
with the tip of your tongue. Come dangerously close to her pussy, then float away.
Make her anticipate it. Now lick the crease where her leg joins her pussy.
Nuzzle your face into her muff. Brush your lips over her pussy without pressing down on
it to further excite her until she’s arching up her back trying to get you to eat her. Of
course, if she really was groaning and grinding, go for it . . . I also don’t particularly
enjoy a guy endlessly nibbling my inner thigh while my clit is quivering in anticipation.
Moisten your fingers and open her outer lips, examine them, taste the texture of the
inner side with your tongue. See if her clit is starting to peek out from under its hood.
Play with her inner lips with your lips and tongue. Open her inner lips and examine the
vestibule. See if you can find her meatus, the opening for her urethra. Its sort of like the
opening in the head of your cock that she plays with, now play with hers with your
tongue. Look at the hole your cock has been playing around in. The entrance to her cunt
looks like an open flower with its lower petals blending into the larger lowermost petals
of the inner lips. Taste its juices with your tongue, they should be flowing now. Slip your
tongue farther in and feel the texture, move it around in her cunt and watch her
response.
But I’m getting ahead of myself again.
The Tongue
I want to repeat, there’s almost nothing you can do with your tongue that won’t feel
terrific, so relax! I promise, you may be confused and uncertain, but she’s in heaven. Any
licking and sucking of her lips, cunt, or clit are going to feel just great, and I’d no sooner
tell guys to “do it exactly like this” than I would tell every chef to follow the same recipe.
But for those who are compelled to RTMF, here are a few techniques that you might like
to try:
Play around in the vestibule, try lapping her pussy from her cunt up to her clit, leaving
your tongue soft and jaw relaxed. This is a good way to start your tonguing. Run your
tongue between the inner and outer lips on one side, while holding the two together
with your lips. Good job, now do the other side. Fuck her cunt with your tongue – in and
out, around and around, etc. This feels nice. Not wonderful or incredible or
earthshaking, nice. Keep your tongue in her cunt for a while, moving the tip around and
around and . . . That feels better, now lick up to her clit again and kiss it, watch her
shudder. Feel the texture of the tip of her clit with your tongue, notice the taste of it.
Spend some time slowly licking your tongue over all of her pussy, savoring the various
tastes and textures.
Spread her outer lips with your hand. Then, with your tongue pointed and stiff, gently
flick here and there. Feel free to roam, but keep coming back to her clit. This drives
some women wild, and others can’t take it. Some may prefer that you always leave your
tongue soft, so when you try this, pay attention to whether those moans are ecstasy or
pain.
The following techniques should not be introduced until your partner is really hot (i.e.,
she’s no longer coherent). These are very intense actions which may be “too much” for
some women, even when nearing orgasm.
With her clit still exposed, give it a quick little suck – pulling it into your mouth briefly
and letting it go. This is a lot like licking a bit of cake batter off of your pinky. This feels
incredible, and is a fine thing to do if you feel like torturing her (see PUTTING IT ALL
TOGETHER below).
Take her exposed clit into your mouth and gently (at first, anyway) suck on it,
simultaneously flicking your tongue over and around it. This can be done very lightly or
very aggressively, and combined with fingering, will usually rapidly produce an intense
orgasm.
Another choice technique involves rolling your tongue into a tube. If you can’t do this
with your tongue, you can’t learn it – it’s genetic. For those who can, this works best in
an inverted or 69 position. Roll your tongue into a tube around the shaft of her clit. Slide
it up and down; in effect, your tongue makes a tiny cunt for her clit to fuck. This also is
likely to bring her over the edge.
Fingers
Fingers are valuable adjuncts to eating pussy. Most women masturbate by pressing a
finger or fingers over their clit, possibly “thru” the skin of their lips, and vigorously
rubbing in a circular or back-and-forth direction. You can do this too, ask her, or better
yet, have her show you how she likes it done. You’ll never be a good lover until you can
bring your woman to climax with your hands. When you fuck her from behind, or really
in any position which doesn’t allow her to simultaneously rub her clit against your body,
reach down or around and rub her clit. I know it’s distracting, but just do it anyway. One
important point to note: make sure that your fingers are well lubricated and most of all,
your nails cut, I mean cut back to the quick and sanded smooth. The slightest hangnail
can be very painful when raked over that tender flesh. There’s nothing more
uncomfortable (and sometimes downright painful) than a dry finger or hangnail roughly
rubbed across one’s clit.
Of course, that’s not all you can do with your fingers. One technique which is very
exciting is to spread her lips wide apart with one hand, and with your index finger
straight like a pencil, flick the side of it rapidly across her clit. This motion alone will
often bring a woman to orgasm. Combining this with the addition of some tongue
action elsewhere is nothing short of bliss.
Sticking one or more fingers inside her cunt can also be wonderful. How many fingers
you use depends on the woman. Some women don’t want you to stick your finger in
their cunt at all, some like only one (at least at first), some like their cunt to be full so the
more the better (within reason). You can simply move them in and out (this feels best
with at least two or three fingers pushed in hard) or wiggle them around. A particularly
intense motion is to face your hand so that you have two fingers inside her with your
palm facing the front of her body. Now move your fingers rapidly, as if waving hello.
You’re aiming to stimulate a particular part of the woman’s vagina – namely the lower
anterior (front) part. When combined with sucking her clit, this is nearly certain to bring
her to a fast and intense climax.
If you’re between her legs, busily eating away, and want to finger her at the same time,
your thumb (or thumbs) may be the best ones to use. It is difficult to turn your other
fingers around to work on her “G” spot. It also allows you to use your other fingers on
her clit and the rest of her pussy.
An excellent way to begin manual stimulation is to stick one (and later two) fingers
inside her, with your palm cupped over the mons area. I’m talking about that fleshy
“mound” over her pubic bone. Your finger goes in and out and the ball of your hand is
pressed hard against her pussy. You may want to rub or even shake the entire area with
your palm.
Putting it All Together
I think variety is crucial. Some guy posted an article detailing a road map of kissing and
licking (first here, then here, etc.) Much better to do the unexpected, sometimes a
hungry, aggressive approach, other times a laid-back, leisurely one. You can even
include your nose, or your chin in the act. Start slowly, that’s the key, and let your lover
guide the speed of the crescendo, try playing Ravel’s Bolero and keep pace with the
time and intensity of the music. In all cases, start gently. Roughness and clumsiness are
big turn-offs. As she gets more excited, pay more attention to her clit. As she gets closer
to orgasm, don’t leave her clit for more than a moment or two. It’s great to move down
to her cunt and then right back to her clit. If you’re between her legs with your tongue
in her cunt, look at where her clit is, right under your nose. Don’t just look at it, use your
nose and keep up the stimulation of her clit while you’re thrusting your tongue around
in her cunt. If you’re in the 69 position, then use your chin on her clit while you French
kiss her cunt.
When she’s three breaths away from cumming, moving your mouth off or away from
her clit is agony. That’s fine if you’re intentionally torturing her, just understand that this
is what you’re doing. The only prohibition is to be reasonably gentle with her clit.
Nibbling or biting is fine elsewhere, but we’re talking about a sensitive spot.
Speaking of prolonging the agony . . . I think this is great fun. Bring your partner just to
the edge of orgasm, and < stop >. This isn’t easy unless you really know your lover well.
Just have her help you. Say, “Grab my head and stop me just before you think you’re
gonna cum.” Then take your sweet time. Blow on her clit, take it into your mouth just
briefly, flick it just the slightest bit with your tongue. You’ll have this woman squirming
and moaning like she’s dying. Finger her deeply, enjoy the ecstasy you’re imparting, and
finally, have pity. Let the poor woman cum.
OK, lets get back to where we were when we got off onto those tricks with tongues and
fingers. You were lying there with your tongue up her cunt trying to find out what it felt
like inside, nice wasn’t it, she liked it didn’t she. Open her outer and inner lips with your
fingers. Get your whole mouth into the act. Press your lips against the lips of her cunt,
Run your tongue in as far as you can get it and French kiss her cunt, long and hard.
Tongue-fuck her for a while, watching her response, she liked that too, then slide your
tongue out of her cunt. She’s hot now, don’t lose contact with her pussy, keep your
mouth or tongue working on something. Slowly lap your tongue up the length of her
vestibule to her clit and gently lick it a few times, a little harder as she raises her crotch
up to you.
Play with her pussy lips with your lips and tongue, up and down, both sides. Kiss her
cunt again and lap your tongue back up to her meatus and play with it a little, then on
up to her clit again, pulling gently on it with your lips. Run your tongue back down to
the bottom of her pussy and then, keeping your tongue on the outside of her lips, lap it
all the way up to the top. Show her how much you like to eat her. Open your mouth
wide and close it down over her pussy taking as much in as you can. press your mouth
hard against her, rocking your head around and around while you find her clit with your
tongue and start to lick it. She’s running her fingers through your hair now, watching
you intently, mouth open making those sexy sounds women make when they’re really
on the way up.
Release her lips and look up at her face, make eye contact, watch her expression and
feel her raise her pussy up to you as you gently suck the head of her clit into your
mouth, open wider and take its hood in, holding it with your lips. Let her clit slip back
under its hood, then suck it into your mouth again, flicking it with your tongue, let it
slide back out under its hood and suck it back into your mouth again and again until it’s
sliding in and out like she was fucking you with it. Slide your hands up along the sides of
her pussy, working your thumbs into her cunt, fingering the top of it in time with the
strokes of her clit. She’s grabbed your head, setting the pace as she pulls you to her
harder and harder, rocking her crotch back and forth faster and faster. You’ve found
what she wants and she’s gonna cum and you’d better not stop until she does . . . and
then some.
69
69 can be done male on top, female on top, or side by side. The latter two are easier,
though it’s more restful with both partners lying down. Some women love being licked
on all fours, so if female-on-top 69 drives her wild, take the hint and find ways to eat her
in this position. All she has to do is slide her knees out and you’ll find your mouth in her
pussy. I happen to enjoy male on top, but for women who haven’t learned to deep
throat, this is a sure choking position. If your woman wants to deep-throat you while
you’re eating her, male-on-top is THE 69 position. When her head is tilted back,
especially if you’re taller than she is, you can really slide your cock all the way down her
throat. But don’t forget what you’re supposed to be doing!
Each of you must realize that you can’t let up on what you’re supposed to be doing just
because what the other is doing feels so good. Instead of letting up, let the pleasure
you’re feeling enhance what you’re doing. It’s sort of like a payback, you’re making me
feel so good I’m going to make you feel even better. Once you’ve mastered throat
fucking, man on top 69 can really get interesting, he can eat you and fuck you at the
same time. The only problem comes when he can’t make up his mind whether to
concentrate on fucking or sucking. Don’t worry about it, just lie there and enjoy it, let
him sort it out, he’ll get around to finishing both jobs.
The element that must be in place for good 69 is simple: Both of you must be
experienced! Each of you must realize that when what the other is doing feels so good,
you can’t just let up on what you’re supposed to be doing to enjoy it. Instead of letting
up, let the pleasure you’re feeling enhance what you’re doing, share each other’s
emotions. That’s why, when my lover and I engage in oral sex, we like 69 so much, we
can build each other’s pleasure to such wonderful simultaneous climaxes.
As I said earlier, some women feel lonely when you’re eating their pussy, they want
something to hug. Well, you can give them something. Eat her in a side by side 69
position and let her hug your cock, with her mouth. She can put her arms around your
hips, press her breasts against you and hold your cock in her mouth while you put her
on cloud nine, just make sure you tell her not to distract you too much.
If you have a man who is not in the least interested in giving head and only likes to
receive it, then to attempt sixty-nine is to ask for unhappiness in your relationship. You
can tell if he really likes to eat your pussy. See if you can find a time when the two of
you are in bed naked on your backs and he doesn’t have a hard-on. Quietly roll over
onto your knees, straddle his head and slowly rub your muff over his face, letting your
moist lips slide over his nose and mouth. Look back at his cock. If it springs up toward
the ceiling and you find his tongue in your cunt, then he likes it.
UUUUNNNNGGGGGHHHHHH!!!!!! (or, I’M COMING!!!)
Okay, she’s grabbed your head and pressed your face into her muff; she’s practically
suffocating you, she’s screaming and bucking up in the air; you feel her cunt contracting
wildly – how long should you keep it up?? The answer is simple, until she makes you
stop. Some women may stop you after five seconds from the start of their climax, others
may be able to roll right into another orgasm if you’d just keep going. Do come up for
air, but remember, her excitement does not drop off as sharply as yours does. Play it
safe by continuing the stimulation.
If you’re sucking her clit and finger-fucking her at the same time, you’re giving her far
more stimulation than you would be giving her with your cock alone. So you can count
on it that she’s getting high on this. If there’s any doubt, check her out for symptoms.
Each woman is unique. You may have one whose nipples get hard when she’s excited or
only when she’s having an orgasm. Your girl might flush red or begin to tremble. Get to
know her symptoms and you’ll be a more sensitive lover. When she starts to have an
orgasm, for heaven’s sakes, don’t let go of that clit. Hang in there for the duration.
When she starts to come down from the first orgasm, press your tongue along the
underside of the clit, leaving your lips covering the top. Move your tongue in and out of
her cunt. If your fingers are inside, move them a little, gently though, things are
extremely sensitive just now. If you play your cards right, you’ll get some multiple
orgasms this way, a woman stays excited for an hour after she’s had an orgasm.
How many times does she need to cum? Some women are very content to have one
orgasm. A whole lot of women would really like to cum again, but need about five
minutes to recoup. Many women are so sensitive right after they cum that they may
push your head violently away. This doesn’t necessarily mean they’ve had enough, only
that you need to stop for a few minutes. In fact most women, given a short rest
between, are capable of cumming again and again. A smaller percentage of women are
able to cum repeatedly with continued stimulation. This is the much-touted multiple
orgasm that’s experienced by a minority of women. I know this makes it difficult to
know when enough is enough, but there’s a simple answer: ask her.
After you’ve made her cum, don’t leave her alone just yet. A man can get off and go to
sleep in the same breath and feel no remorse, no sense of loss. But a woman, by nature,
requires some sensitivity from her lover in those first few moments after sex. Don’t wipe
yourself off, walk around the bed to get to the other side, go to the bathroom. Maintain
close physical contact, work your way from where you were when she climaxed to
holding her in your arms. Lie close together, arms and legs intertwined, wet bodies
pressed close together, let your cock lie in the folds of her pussy. Talk to her, stroke her
body, caress her breasts. Keep making love to her quietly until she’s come all the way
down, or, if nature allows, builds back up. If you’ve just finished my favorite 69, do some
serious kissing. Taste your own juices as her tongue brings traces of it into your mouth
while your tongue passes her woman’s essence to her taste buds. Taste the delicious
mixtures as your tongues dart back and forth, mixing the sweet cunt and cock sex juices
in your mouths. Who knows what new pleasures this could lead to as your passions
begin to rebuild.
GOD I’M SO EXCITED IT FEELS GREAT
BUT I JUST CAN’T CUM
It happens to all of us sometimes – distraction, embarrassment, anxiety, or just an
inability to “let go.” What do you do about it? The first question is, can she easily bring
herself to a climax in the privacy of her own home. If the answer is no – then she needs
to do some homework. There are two books on the subject that I know of: “For Yourself:
The Fulfillment of Female Sexuality” by Lonnie Barbach, and “Sex for One: The Joy of
Self-loving” by Betty Dodson; pick up one. Then tell her to read it, study it, and practice,
practice, practice!
Now if your partner is orgasmic only when alone – ask her point blank: “Is there
something different I can do?” Many women are shy about criticizing their lovers, but if
asked outright will surprise you with a very specific answer. It may be a simple matter of
mechanics, like a little to right, please, or not so rough, or more pressure and faster. Ah .
. . perfect.
But suppose everything is wonderful. She says you’re doing everything right but she just
can’t cum. There are two probable causes: self-consciousness and/or self-loathing. For
women who can’t help watching themselves, the best approach is to eliminate anything
that focuses her attention on what the two of you’re doing. This is a “be here now” kind
of thing – definitely not an introspective activity. Get that mirror off the ceiling. Dim the
lights or turn them off completely. Put on some soft music. Share a glass of port. (I said
A glass – getting drunk will definitely not help). Have her lie on her back, or propped up
comfortably with some pillows. This isn’t the time for her to sit on your face, or the edge
of the bed, or stand up against a wall. Arrange a time when you can devote a long
period to eating her pussy, and then just keep it up. Forget everything I said about
asking her questions – just close your eyes and get into it. I know this can be a difficult
and exhausting exercise, but she’ll be extravagantly thankful for your efforts. It gets
easier each time. If all else fails, get accustomed to masturbating together. Gradually
begin to add your stimulation to her own, right before she’s about to cum anyway. Over
time, you can take over completely.
For women who feel that their pussys are dirty or distasteful, all of the above methods
may be helpful, but the underlying issue must also be addressed. I am amazed at how
many women are ambivalent about their own genitals. They don’t love “that part” of
their body, and they can’t believe that you would either. Yes, it’s important to be clean.
But clean means a daily shower which includes washing their pussy. It doesn’t mean
vainly attempting to remove every trace of smell or taste. The natural taste and
fragrance of the fresh secretions from a healthy woman’s pussy are beautiful and erotic.
Hopefully you agree (and if not, try hard to cultivate this attitude). When she learns to
love her pussy, she’ll be infinitely more comfortable with your loving it too.
Menstruation
I haven’t met a lot of men who are completely comfortable going down on a woman
when she has her period. But some are. Most women are at their horniest before and
sometimes during their period. You should definitely find a way to make her cum when
she’s bleeding, be it through fucking, manual, or oral stimulation. If you feel comfortable
going down on her, great, it’s perfectly safe. As you now know, you don’t need to get
anywhere near her cunt to make her cum. You may suggest that she insert a tampon,
and then wash up. Or you could lay down a few old towels, turn out the lights, and
forget about menstruation.